“Love me when I least deserve it, because that’s when I really need it.” – Swedish Proverb
Not just love ME when I least deserve it, love EVERYONE when they least deserve it! It’s when we are angry or down and are possibly hurtful because of it that we need love the most. No one that cares about you is going to try to intentionally hurt you, so when they say hurtful things or act in a hurtful way, it’s coming from a place of pain inside. Instead of being selfish and getting angry right back at the person, love them! Try to figure out what is paining them to act the way they are because they really need it then more than ever.
You know, today doesn’t happen every year, it’s a pretty special day. I see it as a freebie to make the best out of. So, love someone a little more today, and, as my Moodscope.com email told me today: “Get yourself some flowers. Put on your favourite music and dance. Phone someone you’ve not spoken to for ages. Go to see a movie. Tell a person you love that you do. Have a long bath. Wear a hat. Wear a badge. Wear nothing (close the curtains if you do this though). Light a candle. Eat outdoors even if you have to wear an overcoat. Buy someone a lottery ticket. Play a game with a kid. Play a game like a kid. Learn a new word. Stand on your head. Buy and cook something you’ve never had before. Tell a joke.”
But, ALWAYS, love! (I feel like I should be in a 60s movie holding a daisy or something, but I MEAN it and I’m okay with it!) Linked below is a song that I love! So I think I’m going to just stand up and dance at work because this song is EXACTLY how I feel these days 🙂
“Music is a moral law. It gives soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, a charm to sadness, gaiety and life to everything; It is the essence of order and lends to all that is good, just, and beautiful.” – Plato
There are a lot of quotes about music that I just love, but this one by Plato is probably the most eloquently written in my eyes. I love music, every thing about it. It’s amazing the emotion it can pull out of you and how it can turn the worst of times into moments of peace and reflection. There are certain songs that help to me calm me, that I tend to have on during simple meditation. They help to wind me down after those long, busy days. I have linked them all below and here is what they are: “The Long Day is Over”-Norah Jones, “Let it Be”-The Beatles (sung by Jennifer Hudson), “Believe”-Brooks & Dunn, “Shine the Light”-Sugarland, “I Won’t Let Go”-Rascal Flatts. I could link songs for days on here but these 5 just came to mind when I was typing.
Music is there for you when others can’t be or when you just want to be alone, yet be hugged and kept warm by something bigger than a physical person. If I could thank you, I would, music haha, as funny as that sounds, but all the gratitude in the world wouldn’t be enough for all that you do for me. Enjoy!
“It’s supposed to be hard. If it wasn’t hard, everyone would do it. The hard…is what makes it great.” – Jimmy Dugan, A League of Their Own
First and foremost, GREAT MOVIE! That being said, this quote covers all aspects of life: work, love, health, happiness, etc. All of these things are hard. Like this says, if they were easy what would be the point, where would the satisfaction come from knowing you were doing something that everyone else was capable of?
If you don’t try you will never know what you can accomplish, and when it gets difficult, let that motivate you to work even harder. Knowing you work through tough things makes you feel great. It’s a confidence builder like none other. Don’t give up, let the difficulties you face in life on your journey inspire you to work even harder, making the victory and the success that much sweeter.
“Apologizing does not always mean you are wrong, it just means that you value your relationships more than your ego.”
Life’s too short! Put what’s important first, relationships, and your ego second. Sometimes it is okay not to be so proud and realize that while you are busy being angry or holding onto a grudge that you are missing out on building and feeding the relationships that help keep you strong. Apologizing lets the other person know that they mean more to you than some silly argument or disagreement. You never know how much time you have with people, why waste it being angry. Wouldn’t you rather look back and smile? Be the first to step back and agree to disagree!
“A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in.” – Greek Proverb
What are we all living and working towards anyways? Well it’s not only for our future but for the future of those we will never meet. I’m sick of watching and reading the news everyday and learning of all the selfish behavior in this world, the hatred and greed that consumes so many people. Reading this quote really spoke to me today. We cannot grow as a society if we don’t take the rest of society into consideration.
Look at it this way, when you plant a seed to grow a tree, it will be YEARS before that tree will ever be large enough to really be noticed. Shade of that tree and possibly even the fruits of its labor won’t be enjoyed for years to come, possibly even long after we are gone. But we plant it anyway, because it isn’t about us. Because the large trees around us now were planted by those whom which we will never know and it’s time for us to return the favor to those that will walk this earth long after we are gone. We shouldn’t work everyday solely to benefit just ourselves, but with a larger vision of the happiness, prosperity, health and progress of those we shall never have the chance to meet. Find greater meeting in that which you produce, it’s more gratifying that way. We are all connected and what we do, whether we realize it or not, effects everyone else in this world somehow. Make your mark!
“Sometimes you just have to take the leap, and build your wings on the way down.” – Kobi Yamada
New things are scary. I can speak for myself when I say that I have held back from doing or saying things in my life out of fear of the unknown, fear of judgement, fear of rejection, fear of getting hurt, fear of failure. All of these things can be super scary if you let your mind go there. The thing is, you never know the outcome of anything unless you try. Like they say, “The worst thing someone can say is ‘no.'” You have to try, you have to take the leap, because it’s worth knowing the outcome, good or bad. If not, you’ll always wonder ‘what if?’
I was reading through my quotes today and there are so many that say the same thing as this one, just in a different way. Comes to show how important this is. If we spend our life focusing on the negative of what could be or what could happen, we lose out on actually experiencing the rush of the leap into the unknown. We only live once! So, take the leap, learn to fly in the process. The wings you have can’t help you fly unless you open them and let them try. This all reminds me of the song, “Standing Outside the Fire” by Garth Brooks. You can find the video and song linked below. Great song!
“When found with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you, but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for.” – Unknown
It’s funny to read this quote because it’s such an easy way to trick ourselves to think it doesn’t matter if it’s head or tails, that either option is fine, and we just need someone to pick it for us. (Someone being a coin.) We trick ourselves because, like this quote says, deep down inside we know which side of the coin we want it to land on, we actually DO know what we are hoping for and the coin’s answer is unimportant in the end. You just feel it! Try it, flip a coin over a big decision you can’t seem to make. The subconscious mind will amaze you with the power it has.
We already know what we are hoping for, sometimes we are just too scared to make a choice and we doubt that gut feeling. But this quote reminds us to go with our gut, that feeling you sometimes ignore, look past the fear and go with that split second feeling you get with the answer while the decision is in the air. Don’t even look down at the coin once it lands, it’s just metal. And if you want to wait til’ the coin drops, go for it. Because, I can almost bet that if it lands on one end, you’ll feel a little disappointment inside and, if it lands on the other, you will feel some internal relief.